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For some individuals, receiving and performing oral intercourse in any kind — cunnilingus, fellatio, or anilingus — is irresistible. It is intimate, it is scorching, and it provides some (particularly individuals with clitorises) a faster path to orgasm. To not point out, the tongue is an extremely highly effective muscle, able to intensely stimulating a few of the physique’s most delicate elements. The catch? So many default oral-sex positions can really feel uncomfortable to be in for lengthy intervals of time. A bit dramatic, positive, however have you ever tried 69ing because the accomplice on high? It is a variety of work! Lesser-known snug oral-sex positions do, in actual fact, exist to permit each you and your accomplice to really feel supported and free to soak in each satisfying bodily sensation as a substitute of worrying you will crush your accomplice in case your arms give out.
Earlier than you are worried that “snug” is synonymous with “vanilla,” relaxation assured the oral-sex positions under are as scorching and enjoyable as they’re simple in your physique. Plus, in the event you’re rather less centered on intercourse gymnastics and extra centered on feeling stimulated, it is doubtless you will attain orgasm faster than you assume — to not point out, you will have extra vitality to maintain attractive time going even longer.
So let’s begin with blowjob-specific intercourse positions. Carol Queen, PhD, a sexologist for intercourse toy retailer Good Vibrations, says that blowjobs aren’t usually snug due to the best way a penis naturally curves. “Most penises have a point of curve to them, and sometimes the positions we select — or simply wind up in, TBH — have the penis curving a method, and the curve of our mouth cavity and throat going the opposite.” (That is the rationale why kneeling in entrance of your accomplice does not all the time work.) As a substitute, Queen suggests stepping into positions the place the penis follows “the curvature of your mouth,” which can let you get pleasure from blowjobs extra and keep extra snug as you give them.
See under for 2 A+ particular blowjob intercourse positions which can be each snug and enjoyable. (FTR, they can be utilized for cunnilingus or anilingus, too.) Then maintain studying for extra oral-sex positions you need to use, regardless of your accomplice’s genitalia.
Blowjob Oral-Intercourse Place: Sideways 69
Within the typical 69 intercourse place, one accomplice lies on their again whereas the opposite accomplice hovers over them with their physique dealing with the other approach. This will work for brief stints, however in the event you say your arms by no means get drained from supporting your self, you are in all probability mendacity. The sideways 69 intercourse place, nevertheless, provides each events all the nice elements of 69ing, minus the pressure. For this oral-sex place, each companions face one another and lie on their sides, with one accomplice’s head consistent with the opposite’s genitals and vice versa. From right here, each companions can go down on one another concurrently. For blowjobs particularly, this can be a place Queen recommends since your mouth will doubtless be aligned with the curve of your accomplice’s penis.
Blowjob Oral-Intercourse Place: Face Down, Ass Up
That is one other blowjob-specific intercourse place that is each cozy and kinky. Equally to 69 and sideways 69, the receiver lies face-up, whereas the opposite accomplice kneels over the receiver with their butt within the course of the receiver’s face, says Queen. You are able to do this with each your legs on one facet of their physique or absolutely straddling them. Queen says, “from that place, the penis (mostly) curves in the identical course as your throat, which is simpler to maneuver, even if you’re not making an attempt to deep-throat them.”
Oral-Intercourse Place: Sitting Fairly
Use the sting of the mattress or a comfortable chair to your benefit: Have oral intercourse whereas sitting down. For this oral-sex place, the receiver ought to sit as far to the sting of a cushty floor as they’ll, and the giver will carry out oral whereas sitting or kneeling in entrance of them, utilizing their accomplice’s hips as an anchor if obligatory. This place permits the receiving accomplice to keep up full help of their physique, and it permits the accomplice performing oral to unfold their physique weight throughout their legs as a substitute of simply their knees.
Oral-Intercourse Place: Basic Horizontal Oral
A traditional oral-sex place you possibly can’t go fallacious with is one during which the receiver lies on their again whereas the giver lies on their abdomen with their head at their accomplice’s pelvis. For added leverage, the giver can wrap their arms round their accomplice’s higher thighs. For added stimulation, the giver can use a free hand to finger their accomplice, therapeutic massage their balls, or tease their nipples. Regardless, each companions’ our bodies are absolutely supported on the mattress always.
Oral-Intercourse Place: The Kivin Technique
The Kivin methodology, or sideways oral, is without doubt one of the extra underrated oral-sex positions, for my part. To not be confused with sideways 69, the Kivin methodology entails the receiver mendacity on their again, bending one leg on the knee and bringing it up towards them. The giver lies perpendicular to their accomplice, inserting their neck underneath their accomplice’s raised leg and their head at their accomplice’s genitals. Given the angle, this place provides approach for much more stimulation and pleasure for clitoris house owners.
Oral-Intercourse Place: Tummy Time
On this oral-sex place, each companions lie on their stomachs. The giving accomplice will lay with their head between their accomplice’s legs at their pelvis. This can be a stable place for anilingus, however for a barely higher angle — particularly if the receiving accomplice has a vulva and clitoris — slide a pillow beneath the receiving accomplice’s pelvis to raise it and permit the giver a better attain.
Oral-Intercourse Place: Modified Face Sitting
Sitting on somebody’s face sounds extremely scorching at face worth (ha), however I would be mendacity if I mentioned I did not have a slight worry of suffocating my accomplice if my legs get uncomfortable or vice versa. Modified face sitting is a barely simpler answer. For this, the giving accomplice ought to lie on their again, with their higher physique propped up at an angle utilizing a few pillows. The receiving accomplice ought to then comfortably mount their accomplice’s face, utilizing the mattress body or wall in entrance of them as a stability. This could, ideally, require much less effort on each the giver and receiver’s half.
Oral-Intercourse Place: T Stand
Standing intercourse positions can simply be tailored for oral intercourse in a approach that does not contain one accomplice digging their knees into the arduous floor. As a substitute, particularly when you’ve got a mattress that is decrease to the bottom, attempt what I name the T stand, an oral-sex place during which you and your accomplice will kind a sideways capital T. The giver ought to lie on their again with their head on the very finish of the mattress’s nook, whereas the receiver faces the mattress and stands over their accomplice’s head. From this place, the receiver can simply lean over and tease and pleasure their accomplice throughout intercourse.
— Further Reporting by Taylor Andrews
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